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Old 08-04-2017, 01:17 PM   #1
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Me at 37

I hope this website doesn't get a lot of traffic, I don't want to be recognised anywhere.
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Old 08-05-2017, 02:37 AM   #2
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Young pup...get busy now, old Chinese proverb - it's later than you think.

Doubt you have anything to worry about from paparazzi
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Awww, what lovely eyes you have! Who knew?
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I reckon that the 30's are the best time of your life, 40 kinda of just thuds, 50's well quite good, 60's hmmm 70's not too bad but hey I am 3/4 of a century oops way to go onward and upward so they say.Take care God Bless you all. In Divine Friendship and Love.
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Awww, what lovely eyes you have! Who knew?
Well cheers. I have got that my whole life, since a baby even. My eyelashes are a big long for a guy. I tend to get that red pupil in photos too, though I don't know why.
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I reckon that the 30's are the best time of your life, 40 kinda of just thuds, 50's well quite good, 60's hmmm 70's not too bad but hey I am 3/4 of a century oops way to go onward and upward so they say.Take care God Bless you all. In Divine Friendship and Love.
I think I prefered my 20s to my 30s. I'll have to wait and see if your characterisations pan out. Maybe come back to this thread in 10 years.

I've heard stories about people over 100 saying that they are enjoying that age the most!
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That's a great picture Dave! Good to see the face behind the person.

I don't know what the best decade of my life is. But realizing how fast they go. Hard to believe I will be turning 64 in a few days!
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Taking that out of context Dave...

I still waste a lot of time, but I make a lot better use of my time now than when I was your age - hell, I was still partying at 37 lol ...but I suppose it had to happen as it did...(I had the first 36 SRF Lessons under my bed for 14 years - would look at them every now and then)

Mccoy posted a little while ago about using death, our mortality, as inspiration....it's actually something I try to remind myself of as often as I can - "WAKE UP! the darkness of maya fast approaches!!"

In the SRF book about the life of Dr. Lewis, here's a few things Doctor says:

"No doubt the greatest sorrow is to realize at the end of the trail, when the drama of life is over, that you have not given your best....Think how miserable you will feel when you realize you have not done your best to follow the channel God has sent."

"Get busy and follow the channel He has sent, because the Master's love and consciousness are vibrating in the divine eternal, and always will be. The great presence of God is in each and every one of us, that great eternal light of God. It is yours if you will have it. Make the effort."


I typed that out as much for me as for you.

It's Convo week, what a joyous time...I haven't been able to go for awhile but I always feel a little of that joy that the 4-5,000 devotees generate
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That's a great picture Dave! Good to see the face behind the person.

I don't know what the best decade of my life is. But realizing how fast they go. Hard to believe I will be turning 64 in a few days!
So you've reached that old Beatles song reference! I think it is true isn't it that the older you get the more time seems to fly. Still Greg, imagine living until 110 years. That would mean you are only about halfway through yet!
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Taking that out of context Dave...

I still waste a lot of time, but I make a lot better use of my time now than when I was your age - hell, I was still partying at 37 lol ...but I suppose it had to happen as it did...(I had the first 36 SRF Lessons under my bed for 14 years - would look at them every now and then)

Mccoy posted a little while ago about using death, our mortality, as inspiration....it's actually something I try to remind myself of as often as I can - "WAKE UP! the darkness of maya fast approaches!!"

In the SRF book about the life of Dr. Lewis, here's a few things Doctor says:

"No doubt the greatest sorrow is to realize at the end of the trail, when the drama of life is over, that you have not given your best....Think how miserable you will feel when you realize you have not done your best to follow the channel God has sent."

"Get busy and follow the channel He has sent, because the Master's love and consciousness are vibrating in the divine eternal, and always will be. The great presence of God is in each and every one of us, that great eternal light of God. It is yours if you will have it. Make the effort."


I typed that out as much for me as for you.

It's Convo week, what a joyous time...I haven't been able to go for awhile but I always feel a little of that joy that the 4-5,000 devotees generate
It's true. And I certainly don't want to get to the end of this journey with regret but I suspect many people that live good lives inevitably may feel that way nonetheless, which is kind of paradoxically sad. Still, once you know that God exists half of your incarnation is complete. A lot of people, I am conjecturing, may go through life not even knowing if God exists in their own experience. Fortunately I have had inner experiences that confirm it for me. But think about the millions that don't. I would consider them with genuine pity.

5000 devotees! Amazing. I don't think I will ever attend a convocation in this life unless SRF stream it live in the future. My parents are going to be in California at the beginning of next year so I wonder if they will visit Lake Shrine or the other places. It's funny, I have had dreams of being at Mother Centre. I had one particular dream once where I was using a vinyl disk at some SRF centre and Master came in and talked with me. He then left in a car. Such a bizarre dream but I do wonder if it was my past life.

Still partying at 37 too, Mike. You are not alone.
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It's true. And I certainly don't want to get to the end of this journey with regret but I suspect many people that live good lives inevitably may feel that way nonetheless, which is kind of paradoxically sad. Still, once you know that God exists half of your incarnation is complete. A lot of people, I am conjecturing, may go through life not even knowing if God exists in their own experience. Fortunately I have had inner experiences that confirm it for me. But think about the millions that don't. I would consider them with genuine pity.

5000 devotees! Amazing. I don't think I will ever attend a convocation in this life unless SRF stream it live in the future. My parents are going to be in California at the beginning of next year so I wonder if they will visit Lake Shrine or the other places. It's funny, I have had dreams of being at Mother Centre. I had one particular dream once where I was using a vinyl disk at some SRF centre and Master came in and talked with me. He then left in a car. Such a bizarre dream but I do wonder if it was my past life.

Still partying at 37 too, Mike. You are not alone.
You know God and Guru are there, but it's what you do with what you know....that's what I meant by get busy ...the years fly by ...

And to be clear, partying for me was many years ago....another lifetime...

**And hey, you never know - you live in UK so more costly longer trip for you, but maybe sometime in the future you'll get the chance to attend Convo....some devotees say they prefer retreats, more silence....but the vibes at Convo are wonderful...maybe your dream of being at MC is prophetic
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I've had a few dreams of being there. So maybe. I remember one was like being in a museum area. I haven't been there so I don't know, nor have I seen the inside of it except a few pictures.

Yeah I know you are older than 37. I just wrote awkwardly.

I wish I had more willpower to change my lifestyle. The trouble is, because I don't do very much I get bored very easily. I thought that meditation might help with that so that I could learn patience. But you can't lead a life of idleness and expect not to get bored even if you meditate.

As Yogananda said, activity even in ego is better than inactivity in idleness. The balance of activity and meditation was recommended.

You use fillers like movies, music, etc. And it must be hard if you don't use those fillers to communicate in relationship with others, most of whom use those fillers. So how easy is it to find company that doesn't depend upon "fillers" and somehow lead a meditative life? It's a balance that needs to be struck but I don't see how it is possible unless you go to an ashram of some kind. To be realistic. And then, at advanced ages you aren't going to become a monk or a nun unless you are lucky. So what is left?
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Only 5 years before your prime. Now if only I had that to prepare for instead of retirement!
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42 is considered Prime? I hope my hair grows back!
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Massage your scalp briskly while chanting AUM and visualizing hair sprouting...if your concentration and faith are deep, in 1 month you will need a haircut
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Dave, if only bald was as cool when I was a shaved up Krishna as it is now
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Were you a HK back in the 60s and 70s? That's interesting if you were. Who initiated you?
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Were you a HK back in the 60s and 70s? That's interesting if you were. Who initiated you?
70s and 80s. Prabhupad.
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You were initiated by Prabupada himself which is very interesting. See, your story is one that I am deeply interested in. How did you come to Yogananda?
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You were initiated by Prabupada himself which is very interesting. See, your story is one that I am deeply interested in. How did you come to Yogananda?
Dave, I read AY first back in '74 then joined HK a year or so later. I'm kind of sentimental so I still think of Yogananda from time to time. That's basically how I first got interested in Eastern thinking. But I liked the idea of having more variety for meditation so I wound up with HK.

At the time I joined HK, there were lots of people joining left and right. There was even a friend from my own neighborhood I used to hang out with and smoke pot and take LSD who I convinced to join. He wound up joining and shaving up at the New Orleans temple. I had already joined on a bus party. But Prabhupad was 80 years old at the time and was very busy traveling all over the world to each and every temple and also trying to finish translating the Srimad Bhagavatam. So I only got to see Prabhupad once.

I saw Prabhupad at the Detroit temple which was previously the Fisher-Ford mansion. He had just bought it for a million dollars cash. Seeing him first arrive and step out of the limo of course at that time I'm thinking "rockstar". But more importantly when I looked into his eyes he simply projected total conviction in Krishna and what he was doing.

So I had my initiation ceremony there and the closest I got was to get a cookie from his hand when he was surrounded by over a hundred disciples while passing them out. Then two days later he was on a plane, never to make it back to Detroit again. Kind of shows you how much interest he had in hanging out in mansions.

Back to Yogananda, I subscribed to the lessons once but never made it very far. Goes to show - if there's anything money can't buy it is commitment!
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Dave, I read AY first back in '74 then joined HK a year or so later. I'm kind of sentimental so I still think of Yogananda from time to time. That's basically how I first got interested in Eastern thinking. But I liked the idea of having more variety for meditation so I wound up with HK.

At the time I joined HK, there were lots of people joining left and right. There was even a friend from my own neighborhood I used to hang out with and smoke pot and take LSD who I convinced to join. He wound up joining and shaving up at the New Orleans temple. I had already joined on a bus party. But Prabhupad was 80 years old at the time and was very busy traveling all over the world to each and every temple and also trying to finish translating the Srimad Bhagavatam. So I only got to see Prabhupad once.

I saw Prabhupad at the Detroit temple which was previously the Fisher-Ford mansion. He had just bought it for a million dollars cash. Seeing him first arrive and step out of the limo of course at that time I'm thinking "rockstar". But more importantly when I looked into his eyes he simply projected total conviction in Krishna and what he was doing.

So I had my initiation ceremony there and the closest I got was to get a cookie from his hand when he was surrounded by over a hundred disciples while passing them out. Then two days later he was on a plane, never to make it back to Detroit again. Kind of shows you how much interest he had in hanging out in mansions.

Back to Yogananda, I subscribed to the lessons once but never made it very far. Goes to show - if there's anything money can't buy it is commitment!
Your story is good. But if you aren't a disciple of Yogananda but a HK devotee, what brings you to these forum shores? I have the new pocket edition of the Iskcon Bhagavad Gita and I like it very much. I don't agree with all PRabhupada says but I enjoy the bhakti of it.
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Your story is good. But if you aren't a disciple of Yogananda but a HK devotee, what brings you to these forum shores? I have the new pocket edition of the Iskcon Bhagavad Gita and I like it very much. I don't agree with all PRabhupada says but I enjoy the bhakti of it.
Hi Dave, I joined this forum back in '07. Iskcon in America was long dead by then (in my opinion) so when that happens you go looking for other things. By now I only show up sporadically since there's just a few people posting, like with all vBulletin forums.

It would be interesting to explore the benefits of Kriya Yoga but I don't seem very apt to change anymore. So now I mostly just chant and do bhakti yoga - also very sporadically.
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Hi Dave, I joined this forum back in '07. Iskcon in America was long dead by then (in my opinion) so when that happens you go looking for other things. By now I only show up sporadically since there's just a few people posting, like with all vBulletin forums.

It would be interesting to explore the benefits of Kriya Yoga but I don't seem very apt to change anymore. So now I mostly just chant and do bhakti yoga - also very sporadically.
It would also be interesting to hear what kinds of spiritual experiences you had with your practice if you are willing to share.

Perhaps the HK died in the USA because of all the controversies surrounding drugs, guns and child abuse?

I once knew a HK monk here in London. I met him at their centre, he was on the door. We struck up a friendship in a way and he seemed pretty level headed which wasn't what I was suspecting. I admit that the impersonal concept of God is very nebulous and that most if not all humans need a personal version of God to relate to. Anyway, some of the arguments are persuasive. Incidentally this monk I saw on TV about a year later. There was a documentary and he was in it. He seems to have dropped out of social media now so I can't locate him.

In terms of the personal God, God decided to reveal Himself to me in the form of Jesus. I don't know what to make of this though I immersed myself in a study of Christianity and learnt tons of stuff I never knew even though I grew up a Catholic.
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Dave, if you hear a Hare Krishna talk about their own spiritual experiences it's a good chance that person is either very naive or an aspiring bogus guru. Vaishnavas who are on a very high or advanced spiritual level and who are capable of visualizing a higher realm want to tell the experiences of other Vaishnava saints and only confidentially and rarely their own experiences. The best Krishna literature I know of on spiritual experiences can be found in the book The Saints of Vraja.

Now there is another category of spiritual experience a Hare Krishna may tell that does not involve new age-y visitations from the departed or mystical inner visions. This of course brings into play the doctrine of oneness-in-difference with everything that is used to represent Krishna in the external world and God Himself. So being surrounded by and physically taking part in sounds, tastes, sights and smells related to Krishna an aspirant may feel enraptured by divine experience, such as by fully participating in a temple service. This is much more tangible and can be enjoyed by neophytes and may explain some of the “level-headedness” you see in Krishna members.

Or you might hear an experience a devotee had while on sankirtan or book distribution. Like “by Krishna’s mercy, [the most unlikely person on earth] gave me a donation for a big book and went away with a smile”. That even happened to me once.

We know that the whole point of yoga practice is to make the body, mind and psyche very strong so that it can withstand spiritual experience. So it takes a lot of time and effort and nothing that is really worth mentioning as “spiritual experience” is had very cheaply. In fact, you can attribute the demise of Iskcon to a group of members who thought things could be had pretty cheaply. There were 11 leaders who thought they were spiritually advanced enough to be worshipped as guru. So they misled and alienated a lot of other members. They had mostly practiced Krishna consciousness for 10 years at best, so they all had much more materialistic training than spiritual training. Spiritual babies.
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Dave, if you hear a Hare Krishna talk about their own spiritual experiences it's a good chance that person is either very naive or an aspiring bogus guru. Vaishnavas who are on a very high or advanced spiritual level and who are capable of visualizing a higher realm want to tell the experiences of other Vaishnava saints and only confidentially and rarely their own experiences. The best Krishna literature I know of on spiritual experiences can be found in the book The Saints of Vraja.

Now there is another category of spiritual experience a Hare Krishna may tell that does not involve new age-y visitations from the departed or mystical inner visions. This of course brings into play the doctrine of oneness-in-difference with everything that is used to represent Krishna in the external world and God Himself. So being surrounded by and physically taking part in sounds, tastes, sights and smells related to Krishna an aspirant may feel enraptured by divine experience, such as by fully participating in a temple service. This is much more tangible and can be enjoyed by neophytes and may explain some of the “level-headedness” you see in Krishna members.

Or you might hear an experience a devotee had while on sankirtan or book distribution. Like “by Krishna’s mercy, [the most unlikely person on earth] gave me a donation for a big book and went away with a smile”. That even happened to me once.

We know that the whole point of yoga practice is to make the body, mind and psyche very strong so that it can withstand spiritual experience. So it takes a lot of time and effort and nothing that is really worth mentioning as “spiritual experience” is had very cheaply. In fact, you can attribute the demise of Iskcon to a group of members who thought things could be had pretty cheaply. There were 11 leaders who thought they were spiritually advanced enough to be worshipped as guru. So they misled and alienated a lot of other members. They had mostly practiced Krishna consciousness for 10 years at best, so they all had much more materialistic training than spiritual training. Spiritual babies.
What is meant by visualising a higher realm? I looked for that book you mentioned but it appears to be only available in paperback and not online.

10 years is a generous amount of time to get spiritual experiences. Yogananda trained under Yukteswar for 10 years, though he probably had accumlated karma from before.

I don't think I agree with your idea that it takes a long time to get spiritual experiences. Certainly it takes effort but if the effort is sincere and deep you can get spiritual experiences quickly. And a lot of it doesn't even depend on your own effort but comes by the grace of God in his own good time.
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